Itoo find that, despite my job/education, and limited time on the web i have enough time to come in and post, but not everyone seems capable of that.. i dont know, but in my exerience, when thigns get colder outside, and summer vacation stops, thast when people vivolently return for a nice story.. or just plane romping... anyway, all these people are close, and we have some history with them, i dont think anyone would just dissapear without a farewell post